[laurent.corrompu]

Hi guys ? What do you think of losing virginity between 25 and 30 years old ? Is it a waste, because lack of romance, love, sexual tension, desire etc... 
I'm on several meeting app like Tinder, but I don't please to women, I had 120 likes in 2 years, 10 conversation, 8 ghosts, and 2 touch... I know Tinder girls are very very selectives, because of the unbalanced game on it, but I don't know. I'm kinda lost...

And what do you like of escorting in general ? I know it's very expensive, but it allows to reach unreachable outstanding girls ...

Some feedback if you have ever this kind of experiences ?

[BaseAppetites]

I have several close friends older than that who are virgins - for various reasons (all of them still like women though, before you ask). I want to ask, though: are you looking to lose your virginity, or are you looking to get a girlfriend, or are you looking to date someone seriously?

If just the first - you want to get an escort and can afford it, yeah go for it, assuming it's all legal. They're providing a service that you want. Go for it.

If it's the other 2 - well, unfortunately you've got work to do. This time you're a seller. You want people to "buy" you as a boyfriend or serious dating partner? Work towards becoming that. I don't know you so I won't know what you already have, but typical things are stuff like being more engaging in conversation, or having more interesting hobbies (you get to meet more people too), or having a solid plan for the future. Could just be as simple as better personal hygiene/grooming. For some women, you need to be richer for them to be interested - avoid them. You can't have more money in the short term and expect things to work out with them in the long term. It all depends.

What you should definitely NOT do is to feel like you need to lose your virginity because someone says you should have done it by your current age. It's a life experience, yes, but it's just that. People's lives are different, so why should you do something like that to fit other people's expectations? And, remember, the more you worry about it and hype it up, the more likely it'll be disappointing when it actually happens (cos reality can't live up to hype).

[kaitlynx]

try to get an escort for the first time because she will help you relax and feel at ease and you won't have the pressure to perform well

[Psychological_Car114]

it's not a bad thing per se but you really get to experience the hollowness of it. if that's what you're looking for go for it! i don't think you should live your life with regrets. i also don't think anything will change from it

[Ligninking]

Man you do you . I think you should go for it as it's a big mental barrier.

[rick4x]

Speaking from experience, nothing replaces the total experience of a GF who's pleasant to be with, shares your interests, and both of you are into each other. The sex is hotter and much more passionate, even if her looks are not as hot as that escort.

But... that's not always available. Some so-called GFs are toxic. You're better off jerking off than being with her.

Escort experiences can go both ways. With the right one, it can be an amazing experience with a gorgeous babe that deserves every dollar. More often than not, its a bitch that just wants the money and leaves as quickly as possible. With the latter, not only will you feel awful, but you will be taken advantage of, and feel like a fool.

If you're gonna go the escort route, especially for a milestone like losing your virginity; then make sure the escort is highly recommended by other clients. Communicate before the meeting that you're a virgin, and what you have in mind.

[LaurentIssner]

Give it a go for sure.

That way there is no pressure at all on you.

Just enjoy it

[GreekDon1]

I did it. It definitely gets a load off your mind of finally doing it and without real hassle. Try to find someone that's legit, nice, good-looking, and doesn't charge too much. Do your research. You have options, so may as well. It definitely feels weird afterwards since there's no emotional connection. Just show up, do the thing, "have a good day", so don't think too much about it.

[henmis]

I agree with above. Enjoy it and have fun

[lucasc]

Try it for sure.. but don't let it set your expectation for all future sexual encounters - however good or bad it is!

[bingobango]

Go for it, you will wonder what the fuss was all about afterwards :-) it can be useful to get over your anxiety and gain a little experience, but seek a normal relationship when you have calmed your nerves it will be much better

[johncon366]

its not bad but depends on the girl cause a shitty one can really ruin the experience

[Deantannn]

I think as long you are still younger than 40. i think keep trying to find someone and not go into escorting. Escorting may be great but you never truly learn what sex really is. Sex with escort can be way better but it sets an unrealistic view than with a partner. It could get worst that you become reliant on it as I almost did myself. I do not recommend it

[wkywkywky7]

omg，hard to say

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it depends on what kind of person u r

[Caterpillar]

My one friend in the situation as you ended going to a rub n tug.
Has no complaints till this day

[olichan12]

I wouldn't do it if I were you. Too much risk of falling in love with the escort. That can happen at your age if you lose your virginity to her. What @BaseAppetites said is what you need to consider.

[Ultimate-Captain]

I think a lot of sex is who you are with. The act itself is fun but it means a lot more because of who you are with. If you don't really care about that, then you do you! Don't worry about it. But if you want more than just the act of having sex, it can feel better physically and emotionally to do it with someone who you care about and who cares about you. Just my two cents!

[Boring_Head_9699]

Cannot agree more, you do you. If you are a romantic kind of person then you probably shouldn't and wait for your love a bit longer.